Workbook

What We Need When We Arrive

Building a Life in a New Place When You Don't Have a Safety Net

This workbook produces a documented 90-day plan for building a life in a new place from scratch.

This is for:

For the person who has arrived in a new place — domestically or internationally — and needs to build the system of a life from scratch. Housing, healthcare, schools, community, income, identity, belonging.

You'll produce:your Your First 90 Days Settlement Plan

The Name It First Experience

Settling in requires building systems — this workbook gives the sequence and starts now. What We Need When We Arrive walks you through every domain of building a life from scratch: housing, healthcare, schools, community, income, identity, and belonging — in the specific order that makes each next step possible. It is for the person who arrived without a safety net and cannot afford to figure it out as they go — who needs a documented plan for the first 90 days, not general encouragement. You finish with a documented 90-day arrival plan — every domain covered, every step sequenced, built on your actual situation.

You can opt into 30-, 60-, and 90-day check-ins from your account. We recommend you do — the point is to see what changed.

Sample questions

  1. What has arrival actually felt like — not the version you share with people who asked how it is going?
  2. What system of your previous life do you miss most that you have not yet rebuilt?
  3. What has been genuinely better than you expected — and what has been harder?

Research basis

Ecological systems theory / community psychology / acculturation research / positive psychology / social capital theory

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The full guide on any screen, with a companion journal to write your answers by hand.

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We read every question and every scenario aloud. For the commute, the walk, the dishes.

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Answer on screen. Your responses save as you go and assemble into your finished document.

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Listen to each question and speak your answer. We capture it. You never touch a keyboard.

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The Essential path takes you to your finished document by the questions that matter most. The Full-depth path walks every question, every scenario, every angle. Both produce the same signed document — one just goes deeper on the way there.

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Shorter sessions. The questions that go directly to the document.

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Every question. Every scenario, every angle.

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