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Two Houses

Mom's rules and dad's rules are different and you're stuck in the middle.

You have two sets of rules. You live in both. Nobody asked if that was hard.

This is for:

For the child who moves between two households with different rules — and for caregivers and counselors who want something that names how hard that is without taking sides.

You'll produce:your Your Two Houses Page

The Name It First Experience

At one house, bedtime is 8. At the other, it is later. You love both people. But sometimes you feel like you are always wrong somewhere. In Two Houses, you navigate the moments that feel impossible — when the rules are different and someone always seems to know which house you prefer. Each path leads somewhere different. Your Two Houses Page holds the moment you chose and what you learned about living in both places. The output is not a lesson about divorce. It is a named decision you made.

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Sample questions

  1. What do you think the character is feeling when they get in trouble for following the rules from the other house?
  2. What would YOU do when the rules are different in your two homes and you're not sure what's right?
  3. What is the hardest part about living between two places?

Research basis

Wallerstein (children of divorce adjustment) / Emery (co-parenting and child outcomes) / Hetherington (family transitions) / Ahrons (binuclear family systems)

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