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The Wedding Prep Workbook

The Conversations Before the Ceremony

You have planned the flowers, the venue, and the menu. You have not planned the marriage.

This is for:

For the engaged couple preparing for a wedding who wants the conversations about the marriage to keep pace with the conversations about the day, so the commitment is as clear as the centerpieces.

You'll produce:your The Wedding Prep Agreement

The Name It First Experience

Wedding planning covers every detail of the day. It rarely covers what comes next. The Wedding Prep Agreement gives you the conversations premarital research says matter most: values, family, conflict, finances, and the vision for the life being built. Not instead of the planning. Alongside it, so the marriage starts on the same foundation as the ceremony.

You can opt into 30-, 60-, and 90-day check-ins from your account. We recommend you do — the point is to see what changed.

Sample questions

  1. What made you say yes to this person — the real answer, not the toastable one?
  2. What kind of marriage are you actually building — and have you named that together?
  3. What do you each need from this marriage that you haven't fully said out loud?

Research basis

Gottman's research on premarital couples and long-term marital outcomes / Markman, Stanley, and Blumberg's PREP program research on premarital education reducing divorce rates / Olson's PREPARE/ENRICH assessment research on premarital conversation topics that predict satisfaction / Rosenberg's NVC framework applied to early partnership communication

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Every format asks the same questions and produces the same document.

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A real book and a pen. Write in the margins. The most permanent version of you on a page.

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The full guide on any screen, with a companion journal to write your answers by hand.

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We read every question and every scenario aloud. For the commute, the walk, the dishes.

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The keepsake edition — sewn, ribboned, made to sit on a shelf and be returned to.

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Answer on screen. Your responses save as you go and assemble into your finished document.

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Hands-Free Interactive + membership+membership

Listen to each question and speak your answer. We capture it. You never touch a keyboard.

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Choose your pace.

The Essential path takes you to your finished document by the questions that matter most. The Full-depth path walks every question, every scenario, every angle. Both produce the same signed document — one just goes deeper on the way there.

Essential path

Shorter sessions. The questions that go directly to the document.

Full depth

Every question. Every scenario, every angle.

Partner Pair

Built for two. You each work your own copy, on your own time — then you bring them together and compare, one answer at a time.

The comparison is the conversation.

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