Workbook

The Wedding Partnership

A Workbook for the Marriage You're Planning — Not Just the Day

The wedding lasts one day. The marriage needs a document.

This is for:

For the engaged couple who has planned every detail of one day and has not yet had the conversations about values, money, conflict, and vision that will determine every day after it.

You'll produce:your The Wedding Partnership Charter

The Name It First Experience

Most couples spend more time on the seating chart than on the marriage itself. The Wedding Partnership Charter redirects that energy. You walk through money, conflict, roles, intimacy, and vision — and you write it down together. Every section is stress-tested against real marriage scenarios before you sign. The output is not a ceremony reading. It is The Wedding Partnership Charter.

You can opt into 30-, 60-, and 90-day check-ins from your account. We recommend you do — the point is to see what changed.

Sample questions

  1. What is one conversation you have been avoiding about how your partnership will actually work — not the wedding, but the marriage?
  2. What does each of you believe about money — not what you have agreed on, but what you each actually believe — and have you ever said it plainly?
  3. What would it mean to complete the Wedding Partnership Charter together before the wedding day arrives?

Research basis

Gottman on premarital conversation patterns and partnership satisfaction outcomes / Johnson on attachment and secure partnership formation (EFT) / Bowen on family systems and intergenerational pattern transmission in new marriages.

Choose your format.

Every format asks the same questions and produces the same document.

Print Paperbackpersonalize

A real book and a pen. Write in the margins. The most permanent version of you on a page.

$27.99

eBook + journal

The full guide on any screen, with a companion journal to write your answers by hand.

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Audiobook

We read every question and every scenario aloud. For the commute, the walk, the dishes.

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Hardcoverpersonalize

The keepsake edition — sewn, ribboned, made to sit on a shelf and be returned to.

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Digital Fill + membership+membership

Answer on screen. Your responses save as you go and assemble into your finished document.

$16.99

Hands-Free Interactive + membership+membership

Listen to each question and speak your answer. We capture it. You never touch a keyboard.

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Choose your pace.

The Essential path takes you to your finished document by the questions that matter most. The Full-depth path walks every question, every scenario, every angle. Both produce the same signed document — one just goes deeper on the way there.

Essential path

Shorter sessions. The questions that go directly to the document.

Full depth

Every question. Every scenario, every angle.

Partner Pair

Built for two. You each work your own copy, on your own time — then you bring them together and compare, one answer at a time.

The comparison is the conversation.

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