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The Video That Got Shared

Something embarrassing is going around and people are watching.

Someone hit send. Now it's out there. And everyone is seeing it.

This is for:

For the Children ages 9 to 14 who are navigating the specific situation of embarrassing or harmful content being shared online — whether they are the subject, the person who shared it, or someone who received it. Also for caregivers and educators who want to build the response skills before the situation escalates.

You'll produce:your Your Sharing Ethics Agreement

The Name It First Experience

A video got shared. Maybe someone sent it to you. Maybe you're in it. Maybe you know who is. In The Video That Got Shared, you navigate the choices that come after the share — whether you forward it, whether you say something, whether you tell an adult, what happens when you do and don't. Each path leads somewhere different. This is a story for children who are learning that sharing is a permanent action — and that the decisions made in the minutes after something goes around can make things significantly better or significantly worse. The output is your Video That Got Shared Agreement — what happened, what you did, and what you'll do differently next time.

You can opt into 30-, 60-, and 90-day check-ins from your account. We recommend you do — the point is to see what changed.

Sample questions

  1. What do you think happened for the person in the video when they realized it was being shared?
  2. What do you think the person who shared it was thinking — and does that matter?
  3. What would YOU do if you received a video like that — or if you were the one in it?

Research basis

Hinduja and Patchin sexting and digital consent research / Marwick and boyd networked privacy / digital consent and adolescent media ethics research

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