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The Trust Rebuild Workbook
After the Breach — Both Sides
Trust is rebuilt in consistent choices. This is where you track them.
For the couple working to rebuild trust after a significant breach who are committed to the work and need a structure that goes beyond hope and good intentions.
The Name It First Experience
The breach has happened and the decision has been made to stay. What follows is not the dramatic confrontation but the slow, specific work of rebuilding. What does real accountability look like versus the performance of remorse? How do you receive evidence of change without dismissing it or weaponizing the past? This workbook gives both people a shared framework grounded in Gottman repair research and EFT. The output is not forgiveness. It is The Trust Rebuild Agreement.
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Sample questions
- What do you still need to say or hear that hasn't been said yet?
- What would you need to see — consistently, over time — to feel trust genuinely returning?
- What does a repaired relationship look like to you — and is that something you both want?
- What does trust feel like in your relationship right now — be as honest as you can?
Research basis
Gottman (trust revival method) / Bowlby (attachment injury and repair) / Simpson (trust and attachment security) / Rempel (trust components model) / Luchies (trust rebuilding in relationships)
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