Kit

The Team Conflict Workbook

What the Team Isn't Saying and How to Surface It

The conflict is about what people don't feel safe enough to say.

This is for:

For the leader who knows the conflict is living in what the team has stopped saying and wants to surface it before it calcifies.

You'll produce:your The Team Conflict Agreement

The Name It First Experience

The Team Conflict Workbook. The conflict is not about the project timeline or the communication breakdown. It is about what people in the room have stopped saying — the sideways comments, the withdrawal, the alliances that have formed. This kit gives leaders the structure to surface what the team is holding. In it, you will inventory the conflict, map the patterns of what has gone unsaid, and facilitate the naming work that allows the conflict to become information instead of pressure. By the end, your team will hold The Team Conflict Agreement — a signed document naming what was in the room and what the team is committing to going forward. The output is not a resolution. It is a record.

You can opt into 30-, 60-, and 90-day check-ins from your account. We recommend you do — the point is to see what changed.

Sample questions

  1. What does the friction on your team feel like from where you sit?
  2. What do you think the team agrees on, even if it hasn't been said out loud?
  3. What would it take for you to feel like this team was working well together?

Research basis

Research by Amy Edmondson on psychological safety and team performance / work by Roger Fisher and William Ury on principled negotiation / studies by Liane Davey on team conflict and productive disagreement.

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