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The Surrogacy Workbook
The Conversations Between the People Building This Family
This covers what you need to make things go right.
For the intended parents and surrogates building a surrogacy arrangement — navigating one of the most intimate and under-mapped relationship structures in modern family building — who want the relational agreements to match the legal ones.
The Name It First Experience
Surrogacy arrangements have legal contracts. They rarely have relational ones. And yet the relationship between intended parents and a surrogate — involving body, trust, hope, medical risk, and the creation of a family — is one of the most consequential relationships any of these people will have. What does communication look like? What decisions does each party hold? What does each person need the other to understand? The output is not a legal document. It is The Surrogacy Agreement.
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Sample questions
- What do all the people in this arrangement actually need from each other — and have those needs been named?
- What expectations are operating between intended parents and surrogate that haven't been said out loud?
- What does a surrogacy relationship that works for everyone involved actually require?
Research basis
Surrogacy relationship research / reproductive ethics / relational contract theory / attachment theory applied to surrogacy arrangements
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The Essential path takes you to your finished document by the questions that matter most. The Full-depth path walks every question, every scenario, every angle. Both produce the same signed document — one just goes deeper on the way there.
Essential path
Shorter sessions. The questions that go directly to the document.
Full depth
Every question. Every scenario, every angle.
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Built for two. You each work your own copy, on your own time — then you bring them together and compare, one answer at a time.
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