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The Student Identity Workbook — Middle School
Who You Are When Nobody's Watching
Middle school has a lot of opinions about who you should be. This workbook asks who you are.
For the middle school student navigating the gap between who they are in public and who they are when nobody is watching — and needing a private place to figure it out.
The Name It First Experience
The Student Identity Workbook — Middle School examines the gap between who you are in the hallway and who you are when nobody is watching, and gives you a private structured space to name it before middle school finishes deciding for you. Your Personal Identity Map is yours when you finish. The output is not a personality type. It is a document about who you are.
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Sample questions
- What part of school interests you — and what do you wish there was more of?
- What is something you're good at that not everyone knows about?
- Describe who you are when nobody's watching — the real version of you, in your own words.
- What do you want for yourself that you haven't told anyone yet?
Research basis
Erikson and Marcia (adolescent identity development and the formation window in grades 6–8) / Festinger (social comparison and identity anchoring) / CASEL (self-awareness as foundational SEL competency) / White (narrative therapy and adolescent identity authorship).
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