Card Game
The Self-Knowledge Quick Deck
20 Questions for the Person Avoiding Themselves
Twenty questions. One session. The performance named for what it is.
For the individual who wants 20 unflinching questions.
The Name It First Experience
The question is not whether you perform — it is which parts are you. The Self-Knowledge Quick Deck delivers 20 unflinching questions for the person who has been managing their public self so long they have lost track of who is underneath it — in a single sitting, no journal required. It is for the individual who wants to examine themselves without a therapist, a partner, or a 12-step process — just 20 honest questions and a quiet room. You work through the deck and end up naming at least one thing you have been performing that is not you.
You can opt into 30-, 60-, and 90-day check-ins from your account. We recommend you do — the point is to see what changed.
Sample questions
- What do you keep performing that is not actually who you are?
- What is one thing that is genuinely true about you that you almost never say out loud?
- What have you stopped doing that used to make you happy?
Research basis
Grounded in brief reflective practice research (Moon, 2004) on short-form prompts as entry points to deeper self-inquiry / Schwartz (2004) on structured limitation as a condition for productive choice / self-knowledge literature supporting rapid-cycle question formats as accessible tools for non-therapeutic self-reflection.
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Every format asks the same questions and produces the same document.
Print Paperbackpersonalize
A real book and a pen. Write in the margins. The most permanent version of you on a page.
$12.99
eBook + journal
The full guide on any screen, with a companion journal to write your answers by hand.
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Audiobook
We read every question and every scenario aloud. For the commute, the walk, the dishes.
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Hardcoverpersonalize
The keepsake edition — sewn, ribboned, made to sit on a shelf and be returned to.
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Digital Fill + membership+membership
Answer on screen. Your responses save as you go and assemble into your finished document.
$9.99
Hands-Free Interactive + membership+membership
Listen to each question and speak your answer. We capture it. You never touch a keyboard.
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The Essential path takes you to your finished document by the questions that matter most. The Full-depth path walks every question, every scenario, every angle. Both produce the same signed document — one just goes deeper on the way there.
Essential path
Shorter sessions. The questions that go directly to the document.
Full depth
Every question. Every scenario, every angle.
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