Workbook
The Recovery Partnership Workbook
A Workbook for Loving Someone Through Something They Have to Do Alone
You cannot do their recovery for them. But you can learn what you are supposed to do instead.
For the person loving someone in recovery who needs to know what their role is, where the limits belong, and how to stay connected without enabling.
The Name It First Experience
Loving someone through recovery is confusing. Helping too much enables. Stepping back feels like abandonment. This workbook walks you through what your role is, where the limits belong, and what recovery asks of a partnership. You will build The Recovery Partnership Agreement together — stress-tested against real recovery scenarios and signed. The output is not salvation. It is The Recovery Partnership Agreement.
You can opt into 30-, 60-, and 90-day check-ins from your account. We recommend you do — the point is to see what changed.
Sample questions
- What is the role you have been playing in this recovery — and is it the role you actually agreed to?
- What do you do when you can tell the person you love is struggling — and what does that usually cost you?
- What is one boundary you need to hold that you have not yet named out loud?
Research basis
Johnson on emotionally focused therapy for couples navigating addiction recovery / Marlatt on harm reduction principles and relapse prevention / Beattie on codependency patterns in addiction relationships / Gottman on trust-building and betrayal recovery in partnerships.
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A real book and a pen. Write in the margins. The most permanent version of you on a page.
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The full guide on any screen, with a companion journal to write your answers by hand.
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Audiobook
We read every question and every scenario aloud. For the commute, the walk, the dishes.
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The keepsake edition — sewn, ribboned, made to sit on a shelf and be returned to.
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Answer on screen. Your responses save as you go and assemble into your finished document.
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Hands-Free Interactive + membership+membership
Listen to each question and speak your answer. We capture it. You never touch a keyboard.
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The Essential path takes you to your finished document by the questions that matter most. The Full-depth path walks every question, every scenario, every angle. Both produce the same signed document — one just goes deeper on the way there.
Essential path
Shorter sessions. The questions that go directly to the document.
Full depth
Every question. Every scenario, every angle.
Partner Pair
Built for two. You each work your own copy, on your own time — then you bring them together and compare, one answer at a time.
The comparison is the conversation.
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