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The Open Partnership Workbook

A Workbook for Consensually Non-Monogamous, Polyamorous, and Ethically Open Relationships

Open doesn't mean undefined. It means more agreements, not fewer.

This is for:

For the couple in or entering a consensually non-monogamous relationship who wants explicit agreements rather than assumed ones.

You'll produce:your Open Partnership Charter

The Name It First Experience

Open relationships require more agreements than closed ones, not fewer. This workbook walks you through boundaries, transparency, time allocation, and conflict protocols for the relationship you are building. You produce the Open Partnership Charter: a signed document naming every agreement your relationship runs on. The output is not restriction. It is structure.

You can opt into 30-, 60-, and 90-day check-ins from your account. We recommend you do — the point is to see what changed.

Sample questions

  1. What is working in this partnership right now — the specific thing you would choose to protect above everything else?
  2. What does consent actually look like in the agreements you have already made — and what has been left assumed rather than said?
  3. What would The Open Partnership Charter need to name — clearly and specifically — for it to reflect what everyone in this partnership has genuinely agreed to?

Research basis

Conley (consensual non-monogamy research) / Moors, Matsick & Schechinger (polyamory satisfaction) / systems theory (custom relationship design)

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The Essential path takes you to your finished document by the questions that matter most. The Full-depth path walks every question, every scenario, every angle. Both produce the same signed document — one just goes deeper on the way there.

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Shorter sessions. The questions that go directly to the document.

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Every question. Every scenario, every angle.

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Built for two. You each work your own copy, on your own time — then you bring them together and compare, one answer at a time.

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