Workbook

The Mixed Identity Workbook

A Self-Discovery Workbook for People Who Belong to More Than One World and Fully to Neither

You have never fit neatly into one box. This is where you write your own.

This is for:

For the person who belongs to more than one racial, ethnic, or cultural world and fully to neither — ready to name their identity on their own terms without choosing a side.

You'll produce:your Your Identity Statement

The Name It First Experience

You have been asked to choose. To pick a side. To be one thing so others can understand you. This workbook does not ask you to resolve the contradiction. It asks you to name what your mixed identity is, what it has cost, and what the sovereign self underneath stands for. The output is not an explanation for anyone else. It is Your Sovereign Identity Statement: written by and for you.

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Sample questions

  1. Think of one of the worlds you belong to — the culture, ethnicity, or community. What did belonging to that world, even partially, actually give you? Not what it asked of you, but what it put in you.
  2. When have you felt most like yourself — not performing for any one world, not code-switching, not managing how you're perceived? What were you doing, and who were you with?
  3. Is there something you understand or see that people who belong fully to one world tend to miss? What is the view from the between that you carry?

Research basis

Cross on Nigrescence model / Helms on racial identity statuses for biracial individuals / Root on multiracial experience / Rockquemore and Brunsma on biracial identity / Crenshaw on intersectionality / Berry on acculturation strategies.

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Listen to each question and speak your answer. We capture it. You never touch a keyboard.

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