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The Legacy Letter Workbook

What You Want Each Person in Your Life to Know

Most people die with things unsaid. This is for what you want them to know.

This is for:

For the adult who has something important to say to specific people in their life and wants to write it down while they still can.

You'll produce:your Your Legacy Letters

The Name It First Experience

You know what you want each person to know. The risk is never writing it down. This workbook gives you the structure. You will build Your Legacy Letters — stress-tested and signed personal letters to the specific people in your life. The output is not a keepsake. It is a set of signed letters.

You can opt into 30-, 60-, and 90-day check-ins from your account. We recommend you do — the point is to see what changed.

Sample questions

  1. What do you most want this person to know about you — not as a role, but as a person?
  2. What do you want the person reading this to feel when they finish?
  3. Who are you writing this letter for — and what most needs to be said?
  4. What has this relationship meant to you — and have you ever said that fully?

Research basis

Pennebaker on expressive writing and health outcomes / Harvey on meaning-making through narrative / Worden on anticipatory grief and pre-loss communication

Choose your format.

Every format asks the same questions and produces the same document.

Print Paperbackpersonalize

A real book and a pen. Write in the margins. The most permanent version of you on a page.

$19.99

eBook + journal

The full guide on any screen, with a companion journal to write your answers by hand.

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Audiobook

We read every question and every scenario aloud. For the commute, the walk, the dishes.

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Hardcoverpersonalize

The keepsake edition — sewn, ribboned, made to sit on a shelf and be returned to.

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Digital Fill + membership+membership

Answer on screen. Your responses save as you go and assemble into your finished document.

$9.99

Hands-Free Interactive + membership+membership

Listen to each question and speak your answer. We capture it. You never touch a keyboard.

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Everything packages

The Paperback Everything Package

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The Hardcover Everything Package

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The Premium Hardcover Everything Package

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Choose your pace.

The Essential path takes you to your finished document by the questions that matter most. The Full-depth path walks every question, every scenario, every angle. Both produce the same signed document — one just goes deeper on the way there.

Essential path

Shorter sessions. The questions that go directly to the document.

Full depth

Every question. Every scenario, every angle.

Paper doesn’t change its mind.

Thoughts change. Documents don’t. The answers you write are there when you return — unchanged by memory or mood.

You won’t just feel clearer — you’ll have written proof of what you decided.

Writing is the mechanism by which internal clarity becomes external evidence. Evidence you can return to, share, and hold someone — including yourself — accountable to.

Every question is answerable by everyone.

Every question in every title is answerable by the person for whom the assumed experience is true and by the person for whom it is not. No reader is excluded by how a question is built.

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