Card Game
The Friendship Card Game (120 Cards)
What Would You Ask Your Best Friend if You Weren't Afraid It Would Change Things?
This is why you haven't asked your best friend.
For the Adults who want to deepen their friendships — or who want to remember what it was like to talk to someone who knew them — and who need a reason to move past surface conversation
The Name It First Experience
Adult friendship tends toward the same conversation: work, the news, the kids, the weekend. Not because you don't want to go deeper. Because no one has handed you the question that starts the deeper conversation. The Friendship Card Game is 120 questions designed for exactly that. Questions you have been curious about but never asked. Questions that reveal something real. Questions that go somewhere you couldn't have predicted. Draw a card. Answer it. Pass it. No rules beyond that. What you build over time is The Friendship Card Game Charter: the record of what your friendships said when someone asked the thing no one had asked before.
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Sample questions
- What have you been curious about asking your closest friend — that you have never quite found the moment to ask?
- What is the conversation that would move your friendship from surface to somewhere you didn't expect?
- What would The Friendship Card Game Charter hold about what your friendship said when someone finally asked the thing no one had asked before?
Research basis
Dunbar (social brain hypothesis/friendship layers) / Hays (friendship intimacy framework) / Rawlins (dialectical friendship theory) / Seligman (positive psychology/character strengths in relationships) / Reis & Shaver (intimacy process model)
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