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The Family Visit Workbook

Questions to Ask When You Visit — So the Visit Means Something

You went to visit. You could have gone to know them.

This is for:

For the adult who leaves every family visit feeling like they missed something important.

You'll produce:your Family Visit Agreement

The Name It First Experience

Most family visits fall short of what they could be. The conversation stays on the surface. The time fills with logistics and news and catching up without reaching the questions that would make the visit irreplaceable. This kit gives visits a shape: conversation openers that go past the updates, prompts that reach the stories, a format for coming home with something you would never have gotten by showing up. The output is not a list of questions. It is the Family Visit Agreement.

You can opt into 30-, 60-, and 90-day check-ins from your account. We recommend you do — the point is to see what changed.

Sample questions

  1. What story from your loved one's life have you never fully heard?
  2. What would you most regret not asking on this visit?
  3. What has your family never talked about that this visit could be the one to open?

Research basis

Family systems theory (Bowen) / family visit communication research / intergenerational dialogue studies / structured family conversation effectiveness

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Every format asks the same questions and produces the same document.

Print Paperbackpersonalize

A real book and a pen. Write in the margins. The most permanent version of you on a page.

$19.99

eBook + journal

The full guide on any screen, with a companion journal to write your answers by hand.

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Audiobook

We read every question and every scenario aloud. For the commute, the walk, the dishes.

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The keepsake edition — sewn, ribboned, made to sit on a shelf and be returned to.

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Digital Fill + membership+membership

Answer on screen. Your responses save as you go and assemble into your finished document.

$9.99

Hands-Free Interactive + membership+membership

Listen to each question and speak your answer. We capture it. You never touch a keyboard.

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Choose your pace.

The Essential path takes you to your finished document by the questions that matter most. The Full-depth path walks every question, every scenario, every angle. Both produce the same signed document — one just goes deeper on the way there.

Essential path

Shorter sessions. The questions that go directly to the document.

Full depth

Every question. Every scenario, every angle.

Paper doesn’t change its mind.

Thoughts change. Documents don’t. The answers you write are there when you return — unchanged by memory or mood.

You won’t just feel clearer — you’ll have written proof of what you decided.

Writing is the mechanism by which internal clarity becomes external evidence. Evidence you can return to, share, and hold someone — including yourself — accountable to.

Every question is answerable by everyone.

Every question in every title is answerable by the person for whom the assumed experience is true and by the person for whom it is not. No reader is excluded by how a question is built.

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Built for two. You each work your own copy, on your own time — then you bring them together and compare, one answer at a time.

The comparison is the conversation.

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