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The Ethical Will Workbook

Not What You Leave. What You Want Them to Know.

Your money will transfer. Your wisdom will not — unless you write it down.

This is for:

For the adult who wants to leave something more than money to the people they love — values, wisdom, and life lessons on record before they cannot be spoken.

You'll produce:your Your Ethical Will

The Name It First Experience

The legal will divides what you own. Your Ethical Will gives what you are. This workbook walks you through the values, wisdom, and life lessons you want on record. You will build Your Ethical Will — a stress-tested and signed document of the inheritance no attorney can transfer. The output is not a list of lessons. It is a signed will.

You can opt into 30-, 60-, and 90-day check-ins from your account. We recommend you do — the point is to see what changed.

Sample questions

  1. What mistakes have shaped you in a way you want the next generation to learn from?
  2. What do you most want the people you love to understand about who you are and what you believe?
  3. What is the most important thing you want to say to the people who come after you?
  4. What has your life taught you about what matters — something you want on the record?

Research basis

Baines on ethical wills and moral legacy / Frankl on meaning-making / White and Epston on narrative therapy and life review / Stroebe and Schut on anticipatory meaning-making

Choose your format.

Every format asks the same questions and produces the same document.

Print Paperbackpersonalize

A real book and a pen. Write in the margins. The most permanent version of you on a page.

$19.99

eBook + journal

The full guide on any screen, with a companion journal to write your answers by hand.

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Audiobook

We read every question and every scenario aloud. For the commute, the walk, the dishes.

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Hardcoverpersonalize

The keepsake edition — sewn, ribboned, made to sit on a shelf and be returned to.

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Digital Fill + membership+membership

Answer on screen. Your responses save as you go and assemble into your finished document.

$9.99

Hands-Free Interactive + membership+membership

Listen to each question and speak your answer. We capture it. You never touch a keyboard.

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The Hardcover Everything Package

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Choose your pace.

The Essential path takes you to your finished document by the questions that matter most. The Full-depth path walks every question, every scenario, every angle. Both produce the same signed document — one just goes deeper on the way there.

Essential path

Shorter sessions. The questions that go directly to the document.

Full depth

Every question. Every scenario, every angle.

Paper doesn’t change its mind.

Thoughts change. Documents don’t. The answers you write are there when you return — unchanged by memory or mood.

You won’t just feel clearer — you’ll have written proof of what you decided.

Writing is the mechanism by which internal clarity becomes external evidence. Evidence you can return to, share, and hold someone — including yourself — accountable to.

Every question is answerable by everyone.

Every question in every title is answerable by the person for whom the assumed experience is true and by the person for whom it is not. No reader is excluded by how a question is built.

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