Workbook
The Engagement Workbook
A Workbook for Couples Who Need to Ask — and Honestly Answer — the Questions Before They Say Yes
An engagement is a question, not an answer. Make sure you have asked the right ones.
For the couple who loves each other and wants to say yes to marriage — but needs to know that the questions determining whether the marriage will work have been asked and answered.
The Name It First Experience
Most couples propose on love and get engaged on hope. This workbook redirects that energy. You walk through the questions that matter — finances, conflict, commitment terms, what scares you about marriage — and you write it down together. Stress-tested and signed before the planning starts. The output is not romantic certainty. It is Your Engagement Charter.
You can opt into 30-, 60-, and 90-day check-ins from your account. We recommend you do — the point is to see what changed.
Sample questions
- What does your partner believe about money — and have you ever actually said that out loud to each other?
- When the two of you disagree, what does the pattern look like — and where did you each learn that pattern?
- What is the one thing you are hoping this workbook helps you put into writing before you say yes?
Research basis
Gottman on premarital conversation patterns and partnership satisfaction / Markman on pre-commitment relationship education and marital distress reduction / Bowen on family systems and intergenerational pattern transmission / Johnson on attachment security as foundation for lasting partnership.
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Every format asks the same questions and produces the same document.
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A real book and a pen. Write in the margins. The most permanent version of you on a page.
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eBook + journal
The full guide on any screen, with a companion journal to write your answers by hand.
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Audiobook
We read every question and every scenario aloud. For the commute, the walk, the dishes.
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Hardcoverpersonalize
The keepsake edition — sewn, ribboned, made to sit on a shelf and be returned to.
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Digital Fill + membership+membership
Answer on screen. Your responses save as you go and assemble into your finished document.
$16.99
Hands-Free Interactive + membership+membership
Listen to each question and speak your answer. We capture it. You never touch a keyboard.
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Choose your pace.
The Essential path takes you to your finished document by the questions that matter most. The Full-depth path walks every question, every scenario, every angle. Both produce the same signed document — one just goes deeper on the way there.
Essential path
Shorter sessions. The questions that go directly to the document.
Full depth
Every question. Every scenario, every angle.
Partner Pair
Built for two. You each work your own copy, on your own time — then you bring them together and compare, one answer at a time.
The comparison is the conversation.
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