NAME IT FIRST

Conversation Prep

The Diagnosis Conversation Prep Sheet

One Page. How to Tell the People Who Need to Know.

You don't have to tell everyone the same thing. Know what you'll say before you say it.

This is for:

For the person who has received a diagnosis and needs a structured plan for how to tell the people who need to know — on their own terms, in their own time.

You'll produce:your Your Diagnosis Conversation Plan

The Name It First Experience

You have a diagnosis. Now you need a plan for the conversation. This prep sheet walks you through who to tell, when, and how — structured before the moment arrives. You produce Your Diagnosis Conversation Plan: a single-page document naming priorities, recipient responses, and support needs. The output is not a script. It is a plan.

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Sample questions

  1. Who needs to know, and what do you want them to understand?
  2. What do you need from the people you are about to tell?
  3. What do you want these conversations to make possible?

Research basis

Baile & Buckman (SPIKES protocol, breaking bad news) / Back (patient communication) / Tulsky (disclosure conversations)

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