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The Custody Vision Workbook
What You Want for Your Children — Written Down Before Anyone Negotiates It
The court will decide about your children. This is how you make sure you decided first.
For the parent facing custody arrangements who wants to be clear about what they want for their children before the legal system shapes that decision without their voice in it.
The Name It First Experience
Custody decisions happen in legal language, under pressure, by people who do not know your children. The Custody Vision Agreement puts your voice in writing first. Through seven chapters, you name what each child needs, what daily life should look like, what you refuse to compromise on, and what good looks like in your terms, not the court's.
You can opt into 30-, 60-, and 90-day check-ins from your account. We recommend you do — the point is to see what changed.
Sample questions
- What agreements do you and your co-parent already have, even informally — and can you build from there?
- What are your actual priorities for your child's wellbeing — the ones that should guide every decision?
- What does your child's life look like in five years if you both make your best choices now?
- What kind of co-parenting relationship do you want to have — not right now, but eventually?
Research basis
Emery's research on mediation versus litigation outcomes for children of divorce / Ahrons on the binuclear family and cooperative co-parenting / Wallerstein's longitudinal research on children of divorce / Amato on factors predicting child adjustment post-divorce / Kelly and Lamb on parenting plans and developmental needs of children at different ages
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Listen to each question and speak your answer. We capture it. You never touch a keyboard.
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The Essential path takes you to your finished document by the questions that matter most. The Full-depth path walks every question, every scenario, every angle. Both produce the same signed document — one just goes deeper on the way there.
Essential path
Shorter sessions. The questions that go directly to the document.
Full depth
Every question. Every scenario, every angle.
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Built for two. You each work your own copy, on your own time — then you bring them together and compare, one answer at a time.
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