Journal

The Couples Conversation Journal

100 Prompted Conversations for Partners Who Want to Go Deeper

This journal gives couples the prompts for every conversation they have been meaning to have.

This is for:

For the couple who wants structured conversation prompts that go deeper than small talk — 100 topics covering values, money, sex, family, fear, joy, and future.

You'll produce:your Your Conversation Log

The Name It First Experience

Most couples talk every day and rarely say anything that matters — this journal changes that. The Couples Conversation Journal provides 100 structured prompts on the topics that actually shape a partnership: values, money, sex, family, fear, joy, and the future you are building together. It is for the couple who wants to go deeper than the daily report — who knows they have real things to say to each other and needs a structure that makes the conversation possible. You finish with 100 conversations completed — a record of what you each think, what you feel, and what you are choosing together.

You can opt into 30-, 60-, and 90-day check-ins from your account. We recommend you do — the point is to see what changed.

Sample questions

  1. When was the last time you said something true to each other that surprised both of you?
  2. What have you been thinking about lately that you have not brought to this relationship?
  3. What does connection feel like to you right now — and how is that different from six months ago?

Research basis

Grounded in Gottman (1999) couple maintenance behaviors and structured conversation / journaling and relationship reflection research (Doherty, 2001) / 100-question format grounded in progressive disclosure research.

Choose your format.

Every format asks the same questions and produces the same document.

Print Paperbackpersonalize

A real book and a pen. Write in the margins. The most permanent version of you on a page.

$16.99

eBook + journal

The full guide on any screen, with a companion journal to write your answers by hand.

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Audiobook

We read every question and every scenario aloud. For the commute, the walk, the dishes.

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Hardcoverpersonalize

The keepsake edition — sewn, ribboned, made to sit on a shelf and be returned to.

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Digital Fill + membership+membership

Answer on screen. Your responses save as you go and assemble into your finished document.

$9.99

Hands-Free Interactive + membership+membership

Listen to each question and speak your answer. We capture it. You never touch a keyboard.

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The Paperback Everything Package

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The Hardcover Everything Package

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The Premium Hardcover Everything Package

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Choose your pace.

The Essential path takes you to your finished document by the questions that matter most. The Full-depth path walks every question, every scenario, every angle. Both produce the same signed document — one just goes deeper on the way there.

Essential path

Shorter sessions. The questions that go directly to the document.

Full depth

Every question. Every scenario, every angle.

Partner Pair

Built for two. You each work your own copy, on your own time — then you bring them together and compare, one answer at a time.

The comparison is the conversation.

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