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The Co-Parenting Quick Deck
20 Questions for Parents Who Share a Child
Twenty questions that move co-parenting conversation from the arrangement to the child.
For co-parents who need structured prompts centering the child.
The Name It First Experience
Your child does not live at your end — they live in the whole arrangement. The Co-Parenting Quick Deck delivers 20 questions that center the child: what they need from this week, what neither parent has named yet, and what the shared arrangement is or isn't giving them. It is for co-parents who want a structured way to focus on the child rather than the conflict — one deck, one session, shared or separate. You work through it and name at least one thing your child needs that has not been handled.
You can opt into 30-, 60-, and 90-day check-ins from your account. We recommend you do — the point is to see what changed.
Sample questions
- What does your child need from both of you right now that has not been discussed?
- What would good co-parenting look like this week — specifically?
- What do you know your child is experiencing that you have not talked about with the other parent?
Research basis
Grounded in Emery (1994) co-parenting communication research / Ahrons (1994) binuclear family theory / Amato (2000) on co-parenting quality and child outcomes.
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Every format asks the same questions and produces the same document.
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A real book and a pen. Write in the margins. The most permanent version of you on a page.
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eBook + journal
The full guide on any screen, with a companion journal to write your answers by hand.
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Audiobook
We read every question and every scenario aloud. For the commute, the walk, the dishes.
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The keepsake edition — sewn, ribboned, made to sit on a shelf and be returned to.
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Digital Fill + membership+membership
Answer on screen. Your responses save as you go and assemble into your finished document.
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Hands-Free Interactive + membership+membership
Listen to each question and speak your answer. We capture it. You never touch a keyboard.
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Choose your pace.
The Essential path takes you to your finished document by the questions that matter most. The Full-depth path walks every question, every scenario, every angle. Both produce the same signed document — one just goes deeper on the way there.
Essential path
Shorter sessions. The questions that go directly to the document.
Full depth
Every question. Every scenario, every angle.
Partner Pair
Built for two. You each work your own copy, on your own time — then you bring them together and compare, one answer at a time.
The comparison is the conversation.
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