Planner
The Co-Parent Quarterly
13 Weeks of Coordination, Communication, and Clarity
The kids absorb everything that doesn't get named between you and their other parent.
For the co-parent who wants coordination that holds across two households without every handoff becoming a negotiation.
The Name It First Experience
The Co-Parent Quarterly. Your children absorb everything that doesn't get named between you and their other parent. Four times a year, this planner gives you a structured review across two households — what worked, what created friction, what the children need that is not getting through, and what agreements require updating before the next season. In it, you will review the co-parenting quarter, name what the children need that is not yet written down, and produce a signed plan. By the end, you will hold Your Co-Parent Quarterly Plan — a signed document that is yours to hold and revisit. The output is not a conversation. It is a record.
You can opt into 30-, 60-, and 90-day check-ins from your account. We recommend you do — the point is to see what changed.
Sample questions
- What does each child most need from both of you right now?
- What's working in the co-parenting arrangement right now — and what needs adjustment?
- What's the recurring friction point in how you communicate with your co-parent?
- What would it look like to have a better co-parenting quarter than the last one?
Research basis
Research by Constance Ahrons on co-parenting after divorce / work by Joan Kelly on child outcomes in two-household families / studies by Sara McLanahan on children's adjustment across household structures.
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A real book and a pen. Write in the margins. The most permanent version of you on a page.
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The full guide on any screen, with a companion journal to write your answers by hand.
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Audiobook
We read every question and every scenario aloud. For the commute, the walk, the dishes.
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The keepsake edition — sewn, ribboned, made to sit on a shelf and be returned to.
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Digital Fill + membership+membership
Answer on screen. Your responses save as you go and assemble into your finished document.
$7.99
Hands-Free Interactive + membership+membership
Listen to each question and speak your answer. We capture it. You never touch a keyboard.
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Choose your pace.
The Essential path takes you to your finished document by the questions that matter most. The Full-depth path walks every question, every scenario, every angle. Both produce the same signed document — one just goes deeper on the way there.
Essential path
Shorter sessions. The questions that go directly to the document.
Full depth
Every question. Every scenario, every angle.
Partner Pair
Built for two. You each work your own copy, on your own time — then you bring them together and compare, one answer at a time.
The comparison is the conversation.
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