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The Caregiver's Partner Workbook

For the Couple Where One Person Is Now the Caretaker

You are still partners. You are also something you didn't sign up for. This is how you hold both.

This is for:

For the couple where one partner has taken on a caregiving role — and who need language for the relational complexity that caregiving creates.

You'll produce:your Your Caregiver Partnership Agreement

The Name It First Experience

Caregiving changes a relationship at its foundation. The partner providing care carries something they did not choose. The partner receiving care carries grief, gratitude, and the loss of the relationship as it was. Neither conversation gets had. This workbook creates the conditions for the real conversation. The output is not a therapy session. It is The Caregiver's Partner Agreement.

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Sample questions

  1. Who are you to each other now — as caregiver and care recipient — and have you named what each of you actually needs?
  2. What is caregiving doing to your relationship that neither of you has said out loud?
  3. What does the person you love — not just the person you care for — need from you right now?

Research basis

Gottman (relationship maintenance under stress) / Bowlby (attachment and caregiving system) / Schulz & Sherwood (caregiver couple relationship quality) / Pearlin (stress process model/caregiver stress) / Zarit (caregiver burden framework)

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Every question. Every scenario, every angle.

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Built for two. You each work your own copy, on your own time — then you bring them together and compare, one answer at a time.

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