Card Game
The Card Game (180 Cards)
180 Questions for Couples, Friends, and Anyone Brave Enough to Answer Honestly
180 chances to say something true.
Couples, close friends, or small groups who want a structured way to have real conversations — not small talk, not party games — but the kind of questions that tell you something true about the people you're with.
The Name It First Experience
Most conversations stay on the surface. Not because people don't want to go deeper — because nobody knows how to start. The Card Game gives you 180 questions designed to get past the surface and into the stuff that matters: what you value, what you're afraid of, what you believe, what you want, and what you've never said out loud. Three decks, three levels. Use it on a date, at a dinner party, on a road trip, or anywhere two or more people are willing to answer honestly. The conversation is the output.
You can opt into 30-, 60-, and 90-day check-ins from your account. We recommend you do — the point is to see what changed.
Sample questions
- What is the card you picked that asked you something you were not ready for — and what did you do with it?
- What did you learn about the person you were playing with that you would not have learned any other way?
- What would The Card Game Record hold about the answers that actually mattered — the ones you want somewhere more permanent than a game night?
Research basis
Grounded in Aron et al. (1997) self-disclosure research showing escalating personal questions accelerate closeness / Pennebaker expressive disclosure research on spoken and written honesty / interpersonal process model of intimacy (Reis & Shaver).
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Every format asks the same questions and produces the same document.
Print Paperbackpersonalize
A real book and a pen. Write in the margins. The most permanent version of you on a page.
$29.99
eBook + journal
The full guide on any screen, with a companion journal to write your answers by hand.
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Audiobook
We read every question and every scenario aloud. For the commute, the walk, the dishes.
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Hardcoverpersonalize
The keepsake edition — sewn, ribboned, made to sit on a shelf and be returned to.
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Digital Fill + membership+membership
Answer on screen. Your responses save as you go and assemble into your finished document.
$19.99
Hands-Free Interactive + membership+membership
Listen to each question and speak your answer. We capture it. You never touch a keyboard.
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Everything packages
The Paperback Everything Package
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The Hardcover Everything Package
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The Premium Hardcover Everything Package
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Choose your pace.
The Essential path takes you to your finished document by the questions that matter most. The Full-depth path walks every question, every scenario, every angle. Both produce the same signed document — one just goes deeper on the way there.
Essential path
Shorter sessions. The questions that go directly to the document.
Full depth
Every question. Every scenario, every angle.
Partner Pair
Built for two. You each work your own copy, on your own time — then you bring them together and compare, one answer at a time.
The comparison is the conversation.
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