NAME IT FIRST

Interactive

Sharing Isn't Easy

Your favorite thing and someone wants it and you DON'T want to share

You don't want to share it. That's the point. Wanting to is the easy version.

This is for:

For the young child ages 4 to 7 who is learning that the feeling of not wanting to share is allowed, and that the choice still belongs to them.

You'll produce:your The Sharing Isn't Easy Agreement

The Name It First Experience

It is your favorite thing. Someone else wants a turn. And you really do not want to give it up. In Sharing Isn't Easy, you choose what happens next. What happens when you say no? What happens when you share it and something goes wrong? What happens when sharing produces something you did not expect? Each path leads somewhere different. This is a story for children who are learning that sharing matters most when it is hard. The output is not a lesson. It is your Sharing Agreement — what you chose and what happened because of it.

You can opt into 30-, 60-, and 90-day check-ins from your account. We recommend you do — the point is to see what changed.

Sample questions

  1. What does it feel like when someone wants your favorite thing and you really don't want to share it?
  2. What do you think the other person is feeling while they're waiting?
  3. What would YOU do — share it, say not right now, or something else?

Research basis

Eisenberg prosocial behavior development research / Hay early sharing and cooperation studies / Brownell toddler sharing and empathy development research

Choose your format.

Every format asks the same questions and produces the same document.

Print Paperbackpersonalize

A real book and a pen. Write in the margins. The most permanent version of you on a page.

$12.99

eBook + journal

The full guide on any screen, with a companion journal to write your answers by hand.

Not available

Audiobook

We read every question and every scenario aloud. For the commute, the walk, the dishes.

Not available

Hardcoverpersonalize

The keepsake edition — sewn, ribboned, made to sit on a shelf and be returned to.

Not available

Digital Fill + membership+membership

Answer on screen. Your responses save as you go and assemble into your finished document.

$4.99

Hands-Free Interactive + membership+membership

Listen to each question and speak your answer. We capture it. You never touch a keyboard.

Not available

Everything packages

The Paperback Everything Package

[personalize]

Not available

The Hardcover Everything Package

[personalize]

Not available

The Premium Hardcover Everything Package

[personalize]

Not available

Already own this title? Add any other format from your account.

Choose your pace.

The Essential path takes you to your finished document by the questions that matter most. The Full-depth path walks every question, every scenario, every angle. Both produce the same signed document — one just goes deeper on the way there.

Essential path

Shorter sessions. The questions that go directly to the document.

Full depth

Every question. Every scenario, every angle.

Paper doesn’t change its mind.

Thoughts change. Documents don’t. The answers you write are there when you return — unchanged by memory or mood.

You won’t just feel clearer — you’ll have written proof of what you decided.

Writing is the mechanism by which internal clarity becomes external evidence. Evidence you can return to, share, and hold someone — including yourself — accountable to.

Every question is answerable by everyone.

Every question in every title is answerable by the person for whom the assumed experience is true and by the person for whom it is not. No reader is excluded by how a question is built.

Already own this title? Add any other format from your account.

Buy it for yourself.

Choose your format above.

Buy it for someone you love.

Send it anonymously — the book says what you cannot.

Send a gift

Need 5+ copies?

Volume pricing for organizations, classrooms, and institutions.

Enterprise pricing
Still have questions? See the FAQ →