Companion
Parenting Agreements Book
Your Family's Values, Rules, and Commitments in Writing
Your parenting philosophy isn't worth much if only one of you knows what it says.
For partners raising children together who want a signed record of the parenting values, rules, and agreements that govern their household.
The Name It First Experience
Every family has rules. Most of them were never written down. Discipline, screen time, money, expectations around school, what the children are allowed to hear, how conflict gets handled in front of them, what values get taught explicitly — these things get decided reactively, one incident at a time. Parenting Agreements Book is a structured companion for families who want to name their values, rules, and commitments while they're calm enough to be deliberate. You'll document what you've agreed to — on the big questions and the small ones — and sign it together. The output is The Parenting Agreement Pact: a written record of the parenting commitments your family runs on.
You can opt into 30-, 60-, and 90-day check-ins from your account. We recommend you do — the point is to see what changed.
Sample questions
- What do you both agree you are trying to build in this child — not the tactics, but the values underneath them?
- Where do you and your co-parent disagree most often about how to raise this child — and do you understand why each of you holds the position you do?
- What is one parenting rule you are both operating inside that you've never actually written down and agreed to explicitly?
Research basis
Gottman (parenting coalitions) / Bowen (Family Systems Theory) / Bowlby (parental consistency)
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Every format asks the same questions and produces the same document.
Print Paperbackpersonalize
A real book and a pen. Write in the margins. The most permanent version of you on a page.
$12.99
eBook + journal
The full guide on any screen, with a companion journal to write your answers by hand.
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Audiobook
We read every question and every scenario aloud. For the commute, the walk, the dishes.
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Hardcoverpersonalize
The keepsake edition — sewn, ribboned, made to sit on a shelf and be returned to.
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Digital Fill + membership+membership
Answer on screen. Your responses save as you go and assemble into your finished document.
$5.99
Hands-Free Interactive + membership+membership
Listen to each question and speak your answer. We capture it. You never touch a keyboard.
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Choose your pace.
The Essential path takes you to your finished document by the questions that matter most. The Full-depth path walks every question, every scenario, every angle. Both produce the same signed document — one just goes deeper on the way there.
Essential path
Shorter sessions. The questions that go directly to the document.
Full depth
Every question. Every scenario, every angle.
Partner Pair
Built for two. You each work your own copy, on your own time — then you bring them together and compare, one answer at a time.
The comparison is the conversation.
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