Kit
Moving In Checklist
A Fill-In Workbook for Everything to Discuss Before You Share a Space
The conversation is easier before the boxes are in the hallway.
For the people about to share a home who want to name the practical and interpersonal agreements before the boxes are in the hallway.
The Name It First Experience
Moving in together is exciting and logistically complex — and the logistics are covering conversations nobody has had. Who pays what? What does clean mean? What are the rules about space? This kit works through all of it before the lease is signed. You produce the Moving-In Agreement: a signed document naming every rule your shared home runs on. The output is not a contract. It is clarity.
You can opt into 30-, 60-, and 90-day check-ins from your account. We recommend you do — the point is to see what changed.
Sample questions
- What is the assumption you are carrying into this shared space that you have not yet said out loud — about how the household will run, who handles what, or what cohabiting with this person will feel like?
- What pattern from your previous living situations — with family, housemates, or on your own — do you expect to bring with you into this space, and does the other person know about it?
- What would The Moving-In Agreement need to cover — specifically — for both of you to feel like you are choosing this deliberately and not just letting the logistics decide for you?
Research basis
Gottman (Sound Relationship House, cohabitation) / Rhoades & Stanley (cohabitation effect) / relationship psychology (shared space negotiation)
Choose your format.
Every format asks the same questions and produces the same document.
Print Paperbackpersonalize
A real book and a pen. Write in the margins. The most permanent version of you on a page.
$19.99
eBook + journal
The full guide on any screen, with a companion journal to write your answers by hand.
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Audiobook
We read every question and every scenario aloud. For the commute, the walk, the dishes.
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Hardcoverpersonalize
The keepsake edition — sewn, ribboned, made to sit on a shelf and be returned to.
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Digital Fill + membership+membership
Answer on screen. Your responses save as you go and assemble into your finished document.
$9.99
Hands-Free Interactive + membership+membership
Listen to each question and speak your answer. We capture it. You never touch a keyboard.
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Choose your pace.
The Essential path takes you to your finished document by the questions that matter most. The Full-depth path walks every question, every scenario, every angle. Both produce the same signed document — one just goes deeper on the way there.
Essential path
Shorter sessions. The questions that go directly to the document.
Full depth
Every question. Every scenario, every angle.
Partner Pair
Built for two. You each work your own copy, on your own time — then you bring them together and compare, one answer at a time.
The comparison is the conversation.
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