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Money Conversation Kit

A Financial Communication Workbook for Couples

Money is not the problem. Unnamed money is the problem.

This is for:

For the couple who has been avoiding the money conversation — or having it badly — and wants a structured tool for naming financial values and habits together.

You'll produce:your The Money Conversation Agreement

The Name It First Experience

Money is the most avoided conversation in most relationships. Not because people do not care — because they care differently, and the conversation is too charged to have without structure. Your Money Conversation Agreement names what money means to each of you, how you each grew up with it, what you need from a shared arrangement, and what you are going to do about what you have been avoiding. The output is not a budget. It is a signed agreement.

You can opt into 30-, 60-, and 90-day check-ins from your account. We recommend you do — the point is to see what changed.

Sample questions

  1. What is the money topic in this relationship that neither of you has ever addressed directly — the one that exists as tension rather than conversation?
  2. What belief about money did you bring into this relationship that your partner does not share — and have you ever talked about where it came from?
  3. What would The Money Agreement need to cover, specifically, for both of you to feel like financial decisions in this relationship have clear rules?

Research basis

Klontz money script theory / Gottman financial conflict research / Shapiro premarital financial disclosure studies linking explicit money conversations to reduced financial conflict

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Every format asks the same questions and produces the same document.

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A real book and a pen. Write in the margins. The most permanent version of you on a page.

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The full guide on any screen, with a companion journal to write your answers by hand.

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Audiobook

We read every question and every scenario aloud. For the commute, the walk, the dishes.

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The keepsake edition — sewn, ribboned, made to sit on a shelf and be returned to.

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Digital Fill + membership+membership

Answer on screen. Your responses save as you go and assemble into your finished document.

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Hands-Free Interactive + membership+membership

Listen to each question and speak your answer. We capture it. You never touch a keyboard.

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The Essential path takes you to your finished document by the questions that matter most. The Full-depth path walks every question, every scenario, every angle. Both produce the same signed document — one just goes deeper on the way there.

Essential path

Shorter sessions. The questions that go directly to the document.

Full depth

Every question. Every scenario, every angle.

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Built for two. You each work your own copy, on your own time — then you bring them together and compare, one answer at a time.

The comparison is the conversation.

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