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Intimacy Conversation Workbook
A Relationship Workbook for Desire, Boundaries, and Connection
You know each other's habits. You have never said what you need from each other in bed.
For the couple who wants to name their desires, limits, and initiation terms — not as crisis management, but as a co-authored document both people signed.
The Name It First Experience
Every couple negotiates intimacy in silence. The Intimacy Conversation Workbook moves that negotiation into the open: desire inventoried, limits documented, initiation terms named, and a co-signed agreement both people wrote together. The output is not a better mood. It is a document.
You can opt into 30-, 60-, and 90-day check-ins from your account. We recommend you do — the point is to see what changed.
Sample questions
- What does intimacy actually mean to you in this relationship — not the category, but the specific things that make you feel close?
- What need in your intimate life have you been adjusting around rather than naming to your partner?
- What would The Intimacy Agreement need to say for both of you to feel like desire, boundaries, and connection are things you have actually talked about rather than assumed?
Research basis
Sexual Response Cycle research (Masters & Johnson, Kaplan) / Intimacy Theory / Consent frameworks
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Every format asks the same questions and produces the same document.
Print Paperbackpersonalize
A real book and a pen. Write in the margins. The most permanent version of you on a page.
$19.99
eBook + journal
The full guide on any screen, with a companion journal to write your answers by hand.
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Audiobook
We read every question and every scenario aloud. For the commute, the walk, the dishes.
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Hardcoverpersonalize
The keepsake edition — sewn, ribboned, made to sit on a shelf and be returned to.
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Digital Fill + membership+membership
Answer on screen. Your responses save as you go and assemble into your finished document.
$9.99
Hands-Free Interactive + membership+membership
Listen to each question and speak your answer. We capture it. You never touch a keyboard.
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The Hardcover Everything Package
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Choose your pace.
The Essential path takes you to your finished document by the questions that matter most. The Full-depth path walks every question, every scenario, every angle. Both produce the same signed document — one just goes deeper on the way there.
Essential path
Shorter sessions. The questions that go directly to the document.
Full depth
Every question. Every scenario, every angle.
Partner Pair
Built for two. You each work your own copy, on your own time — then you bring them together and compare, one answer at a time.
The comparison is the conversation.
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