Workbook
For Trans Women in Relationships
A Workbook for Navigating Body, Disclosure, and Partnership Through Transition
You worked hard to become visible to yourself. This is where you write what you need.
For the trans woman in a relationship who has done the work of becoming visible to herself and needs a structured space to name what she needs from someone else.
The Name It First Experience
You are a trans woman in a relationship navigating more than most books hold: your body, your visibility, the ways transition has shifted what you need. This workbook does not offer advice on managing your partner. It asks you to name what you need and what the relational contract should say. The output is not advice for your relationship. It is Your Visibility and Intimacy Contract: signed.
You can opt into 30-, 60-, and 90-day check-ins from your account. We recommend you do — the point is to see what changed.
Sample questions
- What about being trans do you love — the parts of yourself that arrival has made possible that you want to name and protect?
- What do you need in a relationship right now — not what your partner needs to know about you, but what you actually need from them?
- What would The Visibility and Intimacy Contract say — about what you are offering, what you require, and on whose terms your visibility is defined?
Research basis
Stryker on transgender history and identity / Serano on trans feminine experience / Bockting, Miner, and Swinburne Romine on transgender identity development / Hendricks and Testa on gender minority stress / Levitt and Ippolito on trans identity.
Choose your format.
Every format asks the same questions and produces the same document.
Print Paperbackpersonalize
A real book and a pen. Write in the margins. The most permanent version of you on a page.
$22.99
eBook + journal
The full guide on any screen, with a companion journal to write your answers by hand.
Not available
Audiobook
We read every question and every scenario aloud. For the commute, the walk, the dishes.
Not available
Hardcoverpersonalize
The keepsake edition — sewn, ribboned, made to sit on a shelf and be returned to.
Not available
Digital Fill + membership+membership
Answer on screen. Your responses save as you go and assemble into your finished document.
$12.99
Hands-Free Interactive + membership+membership
Listen to each question and speak your answer. We capture it. You never touch a keyboard.
Not available
Everything packages
The Paperback Everything Package
[personalize]
Not available
The Hardcover Everything Package
[personalize]
Not available
The Premium Hardcover Everything Package
[personalize]
Not available
Already own this title? Add any other format from your account.
Choose your pace.
The Essential path takes you to your finished document by the questions that matter most. The Full-depth path walks every question, every scenario, every angle. Both produce the same signed document — one just goes deeper on the way there.
Essential path
Shorter sessions. The questions that go directly to the document.
Full depth
Every question. Every scenario, every angle.
Already own this title? Add any other format from your account.
Buy it for yourself.
Choose your format above.