NAME IT FIRST

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For Third Culture Kids

Home Is Everywhere and Nowhere

Home is everywhere. Home is nowhere. This is where you name the home you've built inside yourself.

This is for:

For the adult who grew up as a third culture kid — raised in a culture different from their parents' culture, belonging fully to neither — and is working through what that means for who they are now

You'll produce:your Your Third Culture Identity Charter

The Name It First Experience

You grew up adapting to every room and no room has ever felt entirely yours. This workbook walks you through what home, belonging, and identity mean for someone raised across cultures. You produce Your Third Culture Identity Charter: a signed document naming where you belong and what you carry. The output is not adaptation. It is self-knowledge.

You can opt into 30-, 60-, and 90-day check-ins from your account. We recommend you do — the point is to see what changed.

Sample questions

  1. What culture or community do you feel most drawn to right now — and why?
  2. What does it mean to have a complex sense of home — how has that shaped who you are?
  3. What part of yourself have you had to work hardest to understand — and what have you found?
  4. What has growing up across cultures given you that you see as a real advantage?

Research basis

Pollock & Van Reken (third culture kids) / Useem (TCK research) / Berry (acculturation) / cross-cultural identity development research

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Every format asks the same questions and produces the same document.

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A real book and a pen. Write in the margins. The most permanent version of you on a page.

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The full guide on any screen, with a companion journal to write your answers by hand.

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Audiobook

We read every question and every scenario aloud. For the commute, the walk, the dishes.

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The keepsake edition — sewn, ribboned, made to sit on a shelf and be returned to.

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Digital Fill + membership+membership

Answer on screen. Your responses save as you go and assemble into your finished document.

$9.99

Hands-Free Interactive + membership+membership

Listen to each question and speak your answer. We capture it. You never touch a keyboard.

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Choose your pace.

The Essential path takes you to your finished document by the questions that matter most. The Full-depth path walks every question, every scenario, every angle. Both produce the same signed document — one just goes deeper on the way there.

Essential path

Shorter sessions. The questions that go directly to the document.

Full depth

Every question. Every scenario, every angle.

Paper doesn’t change its mind.

Thoughts change. Documents don’t. The answers you write are there when you return — unchanged by memory or mood.

You won’t just feel clearer — you’ll have written proof of what you decided.

Writing is the mechanism by which internal clarity becomes external evidence. Evidence you can return to, share, and hold someone — including yourself — accountable to.

Every question is answerable by everyone.

Every question in every title is answerable by the person for whom the assumed experience is true and by the person for whom it is not. No reader is excluded by how a question is built.

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