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For People with Depression

The Weight That Has a Name

Depression narrates your life. This writes down what it leaves out.

This is for:

For the person living with depression who is functioning but depleted, who has lost access to who they are underneath it, and who needs something written down that the depression cannot edit.

You'll produce:your Your Depression Identity Charter

The Name It First Experience

Depression edits your memory. It tells you that you have always been this way, that nothing works, that you are the weight. Your Depression Identity Charter is the document you build across seven chapters — naming who you are when depression is not narrating, what you value when you can access it, and the self that persists underneath. Written to be done slowly, in pieces, with long breaks.

You can opt into 30-, 60-, and 90-day check-ins from your account. We recommend you do — the point is to see what changed.

Sample questions

  1. What did you used to be interested in, before depression made everything feel flat — and do any of those things still pull at you?
  2. What is one small thing that still matters to you — even now, even when it's hard to feel it?
  3. What has depression told you about yourself that isn't true — and how do you know?
  4. What do you want your life to be about — separate from the depression, when you're the one choosing?

Research basis

Markus and Nurius on depression impairing access to possible selves / Martell and Addis on behavioral activation requiring identity clarity / Beck's cognitive triad on negative self-concept in depression / Neff's self-compassion research as identity anchor / Tedeschi's post-traumatic growth on identity reconstruction

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Every format asks the same questions and produces the same document.

Print Paperbackpersonalize

A real book and a pen. Write in the margins. The most permanent version of you on a page.

$19.99

eBook + journal

The full guide on any screen, with a companion journal to write your answers by hand.

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Audiobook

We read every question and every scenario aloud. For the commute, the walk, the dishes.

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The keepsake edition — sewn, ribboned, made to sit on a shelf and be returned to.

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Digital Fill + membership+membership

Answer on screen. Your responses save as you go and assemble into your finished document.

$9.99

Hands-Free Interactive + membership+membership

Listen to each question and speak your answer. We capture it. You never touch a keyboard.

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The Essential path takes you to your finished document by the questions that matter most. The Full-depth path walks every question, every scenario, every angle. Both produce the same signed document — one just goes deeper on the way there.

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Shorter sessions. The questions that go directly to the document.

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Every question. Every scenario, every angle.

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