Extension
For People Recovering from Infidelity
After the Betrayal — Both Sides
Trust doesn't come back in a moment. It comes back in a thousand small, consistent choices. This is where you track them.
For the Couples on both sides of infidelity — the person who was betrayed and the person who caused the breach — who have chosen to attempt repair and need a guide that serves both experiences without collapsing them into one.
The Name It First Experience
The betrayal has happened. The decision to stay has been made, at least for now. What follows is the work — and the work is harder and more specific than most resources acknowledge. For the person betrayed: what does genuine repair look like, how do you receive it, and how do you know if you're healing or waiting? For the person who caused the breach: what does real accountability look like, what's the difference between remorse and behavior change, and how do you demonstrate trustworthiness over time? This extension addresses both, without flattening the difference. Grounded in Gottman's research on betrayal recovery and EFT's work on the specific repair sequence after trust rupture. At the end, you'll have The People Recovering from Infidelity Identity Charter.
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Sample questions
- What has this experience clarified for you about what you need and who you are?
- What do you need to feel safe again — and have you been honest about that?
- What does hope look like for you right now — forward with this person, or forward without them?
- What do you still believe about this relationship — and is that enough to build on?
Research basis
Gottman (trust revival method) / Bowlby (attachment injury and repair) / Spring (after the affair recovery model) / Baucom (forgiveness in couples) / Snyder (disclosure and recovery from infidelity)
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