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For Long-Distance Partners
A Relationship Workbook for Staying Connected Across Miles, Time Zones, and Life Phases
Distance doesn't break relationships. Undefined expectations do.
For partners separated by geography who want written agreements on communication, visits, and when the distance ends — before the distance decides for them.
The Name It First Experience
Long-distance relationships don't fail because of the miles. They fail because the two people in them never agreed on the plan: how often to talk, when to visit, when the distance ends, and what they're each allowed to need while they're waiting. For Long-Distance Partners is a structured working process for naming those agreements before the distance does the deciding. You'll name the communication expectations, the visit schedule, the timeline toward closing the gap, and what each of you needs in order to stay in the relationship with your full self. The output is The Long-Distance Shared Agreement: a named document governing how your relationship operates while the distance is real.
You can opt into 30-, 60-, and 90-day check-ins from your account. We recommend you do — the point is to see what changed.
Sample questions
- What holds this relationship together when you cannot be in the same room — and have you ever said that out loud to the person you are with?
- What assumption about how often you should talk, visit, or make decisions together have you never actually discussed — and how does it show up when it gets violated?
- What would The Long-Distance Shared Agreement need to include — specifically — for this relationship to feel governed rather than improvised?
Research basis
Stafford (long-distance maintenance) / Merolla (relational maintenance across distance) / Gottman (maintenance behaviors)
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Every question. Every scenario, every angle.
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