NAME IT FIRST

Workbook

For Latina Women

On Familismo, Finding Your Own Voice, and Building a Life That Isn't Just Service to Others

You gave everything to family. No one asked what you kept for yourself.

This is for:

For the Latina woman raised inside familismo who gave everything to family and is ready to figure out who she is when no one needs something from her.

You'll produce:your Your Latina Accord

The Name It First Experience

You show up for everyone. No one has asked how you are doing in a long time. This workbook walks you through what familismo installed and what you are choosing for yourself. You produce Your Sovereign Latina Accord: a signed identity document naming labor, communication, conflict practices, and who you are beyond obligation. The output is not rebellion. It is sovereignty.

You can opt into 30-, 60-, and 90-day check-ins from your account. We recommend you do — the point is to see what changed.

Sample questions

  1. What is the name of the role you were born into — and when did you first notice it was a role and not just your life?
  2. When you say yes to what your family needs, what is the thing you have learned not to say out loud?
  3. What is one thing you want that has nothing to do with what anyone else in your life needs from you?

Research basis

Phinney & Umana-Taylor (cultural identity development) / Crenshaw (intersectionality) / Miller & Stiver (relational cultural theory, Latina experience)

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The full guide on any screen, with a companion journal to write your answers by hand.

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We read every question and every scenario aloud. For the commute, the walk, the dishes.

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Answer on screen. Your responses save as you go and assemble into your finished document.

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Listen to each question and speak your answer. We capture it. You never touch a keyboard.

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The Essential path takes you to your finished document by the questions that matter most. The Full-depth path walks every question, every scenario, every angle. Both produce the same signed document — one just goes deeper on the way there.

Essential path

Shorter sessions. The questions that go directly to the document.

Full depth

Every question. Every scenario, every angle.

Paper doesn’t change its mind.

Thoughts change. Documents don’t. The answers you write are there when you return — unchanged by memory or mood.

You won’t just feel clearer — you’ll have written proof of what you decided.

Writing is the mechanism by which internal clarity becomes external evidence. Evidence you can return to, share, and hold someone — including yourself — accountable to.

Every question is answerable by everyone.

Every question in every title is answerable by the person for whom the assumed experience is true and by the person for whom it is not. No reader is excluded by how a question is built.

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