NAME IT FIRST

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For Korean Men

정체성, 가족, 그리고 말하지 못한 것들

빨리빨리는 한국적이다. 하지만 당신의 이야기는 아직 다 쓰이지 않았다. 여기서 시작하자.

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한국 남성들 — 한국 내외(미국, 영국, 호주 등 포함)에 거주하는 — 이 자신의 정체성을 이해하고 문서화하고자 하는 분들: 한국 문화에서 받은 가치관, 일과 가족과의 관계, 그리고 기대 너머에서 진정 자신이 누구인지를.

You'll produce:your The Korean Men Agreement

The Name It First Experience

한국 남성들은 동아시아에서 가장 문화적으로 특수한 남성 정체성 중 하나를 갖고 있다: 유교적 위계, 군 복무, 직장에서의 집단주의, 그리고 급속도로 변화하는 젊은 세대의 기대들을 중심으로 형성된다. 이 워크북은 한국 남성들이 실제로 경험하는 것들을 탐구한다: 한국 문화가 진정으로 제공하는 가치관들, 말해지지 않은 내면의 삶, 그리고 전통과 변화 사이에서 만들어가는 정체성. 진정한 자신을 문서화하라.

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Sample questions

  1. 한국인임을 사랑하고 지키고 싶은 것은 무엇인가 — 신화가 아닌 진짜 버전은?
  2. 한국 남성으로서의 정체성은 문화적 기대를 넘어 당신 개인에게 무엇을 의미하는가?
  3. 당신의 정체성 중 어느 부분이 한국에 속하고, 어느 부분이 완전히 당신 자신의 것인가?

Research basis

Grounded in Cross (1991) identity development applied to national-cultural identity, Kimmel (2008) masculinity studies applied to Korean context, Connell (1995) masculinity frameworks, and Kim (2012) scholarship on Korean masculinity and Confucian social structures.

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