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For Couples Who Fight About Parenting
Same Kids, Different Playbooks
You both love your kids completely. This is how you make sure they can't tell the difference.
For the partners who love their children and each other and keep finding themselves on opposite sides of how to raise them — where the disagreements happen in front of the kids.
The Name It First Experience
Every parenting fight has the same structure underneath: two people raised differently, each certain about what children need. Your Parenting Agreement names the real conversation — not the presenting argument, but what it is about. The output is not a compromise. It is an agreement.
You can opt into 30-, 60-, and 90-day check-ins from your account. We recommend you do — the point is to see what changed.
Sample questions
- What parenting approach did you grow up with — and what are you trying to keep or change?
- What does good parenting look like to you — and where does that come from?
- What do you and the person you're building this with agree on about raising your child, even amid the friction?
- What does your child need from both of you that you could commit to right now?
Research basis
Grounded in Gottman (parenting disagreements as perpetual problems) / co-parenting alliance research (Feinberg) / family-of-origin parenting script research / and NVC applied to parenting conflict.
Choose your format.
Every format asks the same questions and produces the same document.
Print Paperbackpersonalize
A real book and a pen. Write in the margins. The most permanent version of you on a page.
$19.99
eBook + journal
The full guide on any screen, with a companion journal to write your answers by hand.
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Audiobook
We read every question and every scenario aloud. For the commute, the walk, the dishes.
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Hardcoverpersonalize
The keepsake edition — sewn, ribboned, made to sit on a shelf and be returned to.
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Digital Fill + membership+membership
Answer on screen. Your responses save as you go and assemble into your finished document.
$9.99
Hands-Free Interactive + membership+membership
Listen to each question and speak your answer. We capture it. You never touch a keyboard.
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Everything packages
The Paperback Everything Package
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The Hardcover Everything Package
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Choose your pace.
The Essential path takes you to your finished document by the questions that matter most. The Full-depth path walks every question, every scenario, every angle. Both produce the same signed document — one just goes deeper on the way there.
Essential path
Shorter sessions. The questions that go directly to the document.
Full depth
Every question. Every scenario, every angle.
Partner Pair
Built for two. You each work your own copy, on your own time — then you bring them together and compare, one answer at a time.
The comparison is the conversation.
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