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For Couples Where One Partner Is Disabled
Caregiving, Partnership, and the Line Between the Two
The person you love is not the diagnosis. Neither are you.
For the couple in a committed relationship where one partner has a disability — working through the line between caregiving and partnership who want to name what is happening without reducing the relationship to a care arrangement.
The Name It First Experience
When one partner has a disability, the relationship carries something extra — care tasks, medical decisions, dependency dynamics, and the identity questions that come with all of it. This workbook creates space to name what caregiving looks like, what the partnership still needs to be, and where those two things are getting tangled. The output is not a care plan. It is The Disability Partnership Plan — what two people build together to protect both the care and the connection.
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Sample questions
- Where does the caregiving end and the partnership begin — and is that line clear between you right now?
- What does the person providing care need from this relationship that the care itself doesn't give them?
- What does the person receiving care need the partnership to be — beyond the practical support?
Research basis
Rolland on chronic illness and the family system / Boss on ambiguous loss / Revenson on dyadic coping in disability.
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