NAME IT FIRST

Workbook

For Chinese Women

在期望与自我之间 — 你的身份，你的选择

你的身份不是需要解决的问题——它是你独特的力量所在。

This is for:

For the 在文化期望与自我意志之间寻找平衡的华裔女性——无论是移民一代、海外华人，还是在两种文化中成长的女性

You'll produce:your Your Chinese Women Agreement

The Name It First Experience

作为华裔女性，你可能同时面对来自家庭的期望、文化对"好女儿"的定义，以及你自己对生活的想象。这本工作手册不要求你选择其中一种，而是帮助你找到一种方式，让它们在你身上共存并赋予你力量。

You can opt into 30-, 60-, and 90-day check-ins from your account. We recommend you do — the point is to see what changed.

Sample questions

  1. 你喜欢中华文化的哪些部分，想要保留——是真实的版本，而非神话?
  2. 你想为自己的生活构建什么，超越期望，是真正属于你自己的?
  3. 超越文化期望和角色，你是谁?

Research basis

Grounded in Berry (1997) acculturation frameworks, Crenshaw (1991) intersectionality, Brah (1996) diaspora theory, and scholarship on Chinese femininity, filial piety, and gender expectations in diasporic communities.

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