Extension
For Chinese Millennial Couples
两个人的职业，一个家庭——没人教过你的那场谈判
婚姻的形式变了，但谈判的方式还没跟上。
Chinese millennial couples navigating the collision between family pressure, career ambition, and a rapidly changing set of expectations for what partnership should look like — people who are building a marriage while parents, in-laws, and society all have competing definitions of what that means.
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中国千禧一代的伴侣，正在进行一场前所未有的谈判：两份职业、一个家庭、双方父母的期望、以及关于谁付出更多的那些从未开口的问题。这个扩展版本为这场谈判提供结构——不是谁赢谁输，而是两个人都能接受的答案。The Chinese Millennial Couples Charter 是当两个人决定真正开口谈时，共同建立的东西。
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Sample questions
- 你们俩喜欢作为中国千禧代伴侣的哪些方面——真实的关系，而非理想?
- 每个人的人生规划在哪里给你们之间带来了张力?
- 这段关系真正需要什么，但还没有被直接说出来?
Research basis
Chinese marriage transformation research (Cherlin, Davis & Friedman on Asia) / Confucian filial piety and modern partnership conflict / dual-career couples research in collectivist societies / Gottman on shared meaning and accepting influence / China's post-one-child generation and shifting gender roles.
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