NAME IT FIRST

Workbook

For Chinese Men

身份认同、家庭与你正在建立的生活

你不必在"做中国人"和"做你自己"之间做出选择。

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在中国文化期望与西方生活现实之间周旋的华裔男性——无论是移民一代、海外华人，还是在文化交汇中寻找自我定位的男性

You'll produce:your The Chinese Men Agreement

The Name It First Experience

作为华裔男性，你可能同时承载着家族的期望、文化的传承与你自己的人生选择。这本工作手册不是要你否定其中任何一部分，而是帮助你找到一种方式，让它们在你身上共存——甚至成为你的力量。

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Sample questions

  1. 你喜欢中华文化的哪些部分，想要保留——是真实的版本，而非神话?
  2. 作为一个中国男性，身份认同对你个人意味着什么，超越文化期望?
  3. 你的身份中哪部分属于中国文化，哪部分完全属于你自己?

Research basis

Grounded in Berry (1997) acculturation frameworks, Crenshaw (1991) intersectionality, Hall (1990) cultural identity theory, and scholarship on Chinese masculinity and filial piety in diaspora contexts.

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