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Family Boundaries Workbook
A Relationship Workbook for Navigating In-Laws, Chosen Family, and the People Who Raised You
You didn't choose each other's families. But you inherited them.
For the couple whose families keep showing up inside the partnership — and who need a written agreement for how much access, influence, and obligation they allow.
The Name It First Experience
Your family was there before the partnership. Their expectations, access, and influence didn't pause when you committed to someone else. This workbook names the unspoken agreements that govern your time and energy — and replaces them with ones you chose. You leave with The Family Shared Agreement.
You can opt into 30-, 60-, and 90-day check-ins from your account. We recommend you do — the point is to see what changed.
Sample questions
- What family relationship in your partnership has never had explicit boundaries named — the one where tension comes from a line that was never stated?
- When a family member oversteps — with access, with influence, with expectations — what pattern plays out between you and your partner afterward?
- What would The Family Shared Agreement say about access, influence, information, and what happens when someone crosses a line — specific enough that both of you know exactly what you signed?
Research basis
Bowen family systems theory on differentiation and multigenerational transmission / Minuchin structural family therapy on boundary permeability / Perel on the tension between loyalty to family of origin and commitment to partner
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Built for two. You each work your own copy, on your own time — then you bring them together and compare, one answer at a time.
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