Workbook
Faith and Queer at the Same Time
The Identity Workbook for People Whose Spirituality and Sexuality Are Both Real
This workbook names how faith and queerness are both true — and what community already knows that.
For the queer person for whom faith is not something they need to leave behind — the queer Sikh, the queer Muslim, the queer Catholic, the queer evangelical, the queer Jew — navigating a spiritual community that may not have space for who they fully are, and a queer community that may not understand why faith matters.
The Name It First Experience
Both are real — this workbook is for the person who stopped waiting for permission to say so. Faith and Queer at the Same Time walks the queer Sikh, the queer Muslim, the queer Catholic, the queer evangelical, the queer Jew through the work of building an identity that names how both are true — not a compromise, not a hierarchy, but a documented self that holds both with integrity. It is for the queer person for whom faith is not something to leave behind — who has been navigating spiritual communities that may not have space for their full self and queer communities that may not understand why faith matters. You finish with a documented identity that names how your faith and your queerness coexist — and the specific kind of community that can hold both.
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Sample questions
- What does holding both identities cost you in spaces that treat them as contradictions?
- Where have you found community that holds both parts of who you are — even partially?
- What does your faith give you that you are not willing to give up in order to be fully seen as queer?
Research basis
Minority stress model (Meyer) / queer theology / intersectional religious identity / narrative therapy
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