Workbook
Every Day Together
A Workbook for Couples Navigating Retirement — When the Structure Disappears and the Marriage Is All That's Left
This workbook produces a signed retirement agreement on identity, time, money, and shared space.
For the couple entering retirement — when work stops structuring your days and you discover whether the marriage can hold without it.
The Name It First Experience
You built a marriage around being busy — this workbook is where you build it around all day, every day, together. Every Day Together walks a couple entering retirement through the real questions career structure was answering for them: who each person is now, how time gets divided, what money means without paychecks, and how to share space without losing yourself in it. It is for the couple who assumed retirement would be easy because they know each other — and are discovering that knowing someone and spending all day with them are two very different things. You finish with a signed retirement agreement — identity, time, money, and space named, on terms you both chose.
You can opt into 30-, 60-, and 90-day check-ins from your account. We recommend you do — the point is to see what changed.
Sample questions
- Who are you to each other when neither of you has anywhere to be tomorrow?
- What has retirement revealed about your relationship that career structure was covering?
- What makes you happy right now in this chapter — and how much of it requires your partner?
Research basis
Grounded in Aron et al. (2000) research on shared novel experiences and relational maintenance / Stafford and Canary (1991) maintenance behaviors in long-term relationships / Gottman (1999) on the Sound Relationship House model and the daily practices that sustain fondness, admiration, and turning toward.
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A real book and a pen. Write in the margins. The most permanent version of you on a page.
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The full guide on any screen, with a companion journal to write your answers by hand.
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Audiobook
We read every question and every scenario aloud. For the commute, the walk, the dishes.
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The keepsake edition — sewn, ribboned, made to sit on a shelf and be returned to.
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Digital Fill + membership+membership
Answer on screen. Your responses save as you go and assemble into your finished document.
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Hands-Free Interactive + membership+membership
Listen to each question and speak your answer. We capture it. You never touch a keyboard.
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The Essential path takes you to your finished document by the questions that matter most. The Full-depth path walks every question, every scenario, every angle. Both produce the same signed document — one just goes deeper on the way there.
Essential path
Shorter sessions. The questions that go directly to the document.
Full depth
Every question. Every scenario, every angle.
Partner Pair
Built for two. You each work your own copy, on your own time — then you bring them together and compare, one answer at a time.
The comparison is the conversation.
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